How conservative the Japanese people really is? And the government?

I’ve heard it’s always the male side that is expected to take a move in some countries. It’s not the case in Japan.

In the old era, gay relationships were very common and were even praised among the privileged social classes, such as Samurai and monks.

I sometimes feel people from the West are obsessed with those “gender” and “sex” things too much. Let’s think about something else sometimes. It’s unhealthy.

If you caught a shoplifter at your yard sale, how would you handle it?

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They don’t have the so-called “couple culture” seen in many Western countries.

Moreover, buff guys are often avoided for their narcissism.

If you get a chance to have sex with either Kajal Agarwal or Samantha, who would you choose and why?

They don’t bring around their mates everywhere, which means they don’t worry about being single, gay, or whatever because no one cares about whom others are having/ not having sex with.

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It’s very common for a girl/ woman to ask a boy/ man to be her boyfriend.

Why are white women dating more black guys than ever?

“None of my business” is the common attitude.

They don’t tease or beat up cross-dressed people on the road.

They were very similar to the bromance of today but accompanied by sexual intercourse.

How do flat Earthers explain the existence of other spherical planets?

We don’t instantly tie it with sex when a father and his very young daughter are taking a bath together.

How do you see these below?

They don’t have the value that “guys must be macho.”

What does it mean when I have a dream where my friend died? I had this dream last night where one of my friends died in a shootout and I woke up crying.

This is a very vague question. But considering the asker’s comment on Mr. Nakajima’s answer, your interest seems to be in sex-related matters (I don’t think it’s the only indicator of conservative/ progressive, though).